I can't get the Finder window to reappear. How do you fake the location it's asking for?

Here are the screenshots, you can see that everything is grayed out and can't be clicked.

When I launch Mudlet it looks like a Finder window briefly appears asking me to locate the svo folder but then it disappears immediately.

That made it even worse. I unzipped and installed the xmls manually and completely locked up Mudlet now. When I open Mudlet, it opens the window but doesn't connect to Achaea and every single menu option is grayed out so I can't even click to open up the script window or reconnect or anything. I can...

This worked initially but yesterday Mudlet started acting weird and kept shutting down. I went to install the newest SVO update using this method and it will not work, the whole thing completely shuts down when I try to use the installPackage(filePath) method. Help please! Here is the crash report: ...

I have two Macs running OSX Lion 10.7.5. I've been using Mudlet with no problems on one of them but I'm trying to move all of my playing to the second iMac. The problem, however, is that when I open the Package Manager and then click INSTALL, the finder window flashes for just a second and then goes...

I've seen screenshots of players mudlet windows and they have all kinds of buttons and labels to let them know which limb they are targeting, which they are parrying, whether they are prone or standing, what afflictions they have, etc. I am trying to figure out how to do it but it confuses the hell ...